Mind Reader The counseling session began. Maria nodded, as I asked the question. When she lifted her face, there was a different expression on her face. Her eyes moved slightly. I told her, "If this question bothers you, let's move on to a different topic. When you have the mental and emotional preparation, then we will discuss this further." Now there was a look of surprise on Maria's face. She asked nervously, "How do you know? I calmly explained to her, "It doesn't matter right now. Let's go back to our counseling session." Then, on each question, recognizing Maria's emotions, I kept asking questions. Maria had started to understand the process now. By the end of the session, Maria had calmed down. She had found the answers to her problems. I had just helped her in that process. As she was leaving, Maria went a little further and stopped. I asked, "Are there any more challenges?" She said no, and confidently asked me,
Upbringing The base of any relationship is trust. If we instilll doubt in the minds of children, then they will grow up in similar manner and may not trust any one in future. During childhood, every child may not have enough maturity to understand context of each situation. Let's be cautious and not worried. Being cautious will help parents and children to face the situation in present tense as we are making children aware of fear. Fear is a response to current challenging situation. Worry is an expectation of problems which may not occur in maximum situations. Let's educate the child about certain symbols and actions from which they would get alert and stay away from the concern person. Here, many parents hesitate to educate their children, as they themselves are not comfortable about doing so. Though it is difficult, it is necessary. Stay blessed.