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Mind Reader

 Mind Reader The counseling session began. Maria nodded, as I asked the question.  When she lifted her face, there was a different expression on her face. Her eyes moved slightly. I told her, "If this question bothers you, let's move on to a different topic. When you have the mental and emotional preparation, then we will discuss this further." Now there was a look of surprise on Maria's face.  She asked nervously, "How do you know? I calmly explained to her, "It doesn't matter right now. Let's go back to our counseling session." Then, on each question, recognizing Maria's emotions, I kept asking questions.  Maria had started to understand the process now.  By the end of the session, Maria had calmed down.  She had found the answers to her problems.  I had just helped her in that process.  As she was leaving, Maria went a little further and stopped.  I asked, "Are there any more challenges?"  She said no, and confidently asked me,
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Upbringing

Upbringing The base of any relationship is trust. If we instilll doubt in the minds of children,  then they will grow up in similar manner and may not trust any one in future. During childhood, every child may not have enough maturity to understand context of each situation. Let's be cautious and not worried. Being cautious will help parents and children to face the situation in present tense as we are making children aware of fear. Fear is a response to current challenging situation. Worry is an expectation of problems which may not occur in maximum situations. Let's educate the child about certain symbols and actions from which they would get alert and stay away from the concern person. Here, many parents hesitate to educate their children, as they themselves are not comfortable about doing so. Though it is difficult, it is necessary. Stay blessed.

Do you choose your words before speaking?

Do you choose your words before speaking? ~ BipinMayekar© Words have the power to create or change thoughts. These changed thoughts can change 'state of mind'. I had read/heard the following story and have shared in our P_NLP ( Prasanna NLP) sessions in many batches. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Boy asked Mother, 'What is NLP?' Mother replied, 'I will explain it to you. But before that you should go and ask your grandfather something.' And she whispered. Boy went to his grandfather who was sitting in a easychair. Boy asked, 'How is your arthritis, grandpa? Grandfather's face faded and he murmured in sad voice, 'I can hardly move fingers today.' Boy came back and insisted to mother that she should now explain him 'What is NLP?' But mother had another plan. She sent him back to his Grandfather with another task. The child asked his grandfather, 'Grandpa, do you remember my early childhood memories?  Now, ther